Experiencing American Holidays as an Expat from Vietnam and Singapore: A Cultural Deep Dive

One of the things I didn't expect when I moved to the US was how much I would enjoy learning about American holidays. Coming from Vietnam and having lived in Singapore for more than 15 years, I thought I had a decent understanding of Western celebrations. I was wrong :P There is so much more to these holidays than what you see in the movies. In this article, I will share what my family and I have experienced so far — the surprises, the comparisons with Asia, and some tips for fellow expats.

New Year's Day (January 1st)

• Traditions: fireworks, parties, and resolutions
• Cultural comparisons: In Vietnam and Singapore, we celebrate the lunar new year as the main event, which makes it very different from the US. However, across all countries, the new year is often the time for family gatherings, reflection, and a fresh start. So that is the same between new year in the US and Asia.
• Tips for expats: Check out local events or host your own New Year's gathering to fully immerse yourself in the celebrations.

Valentine's Day (February 14th)

• Traditions: exchanging cards, gifts, and romantic gestures
• Cultural comparisons: In Asia, Valentine's Day is also celebrated but I think the emphasis on lavish displays of affection is more pronounced here in the US.
• My experience: I was surprised by the sheer volume of heart-shaped decorations and candies that filled store shelves weeks before the holiday. It was everywhere :D
• Tips for expats: Embrace the spirit of Valentine's Day by sending cards or gifts or flowers to loved ones, and consider exploring local events or planning a special meal.

Easter (date varies)

• Traditions: Easter egg hunts, family gatherings, and church services
• Cultural comparisons: While Easter is not widely celebrated in Vietnam, Good Friday is a public holiday in Singapore so it is a big occasion for Christians. It is surprising to me to learn that good Friday is not a federal public holiday in the US.
• My experience: Watching Sophie participate in an Easter egg hunt for the first time was a lot of fun. She loved it and it was a great way for her to learn about the holiday's religious and cultural significance.
• Tips for expats: Join a community Easter egg hunt, attend a local church service, or host your own Easter brunch to experience this holiday.

Independence Day (July 4th)

• Traditions: fireworks, parades, and patriotic displays
• Cultural comparisons: The strong sense of patriotism during Independence Day is reminiscent of National Day in Singapore and Independence day in Vietnam, although the celebrations are marked with a distinct American flair.
• My experience: Attending a local parade and fireworks show gave me a deeper appreciation for American history and the pride many Americans feel for their country.
• Tips for expats: Attend local events, host a barbecue, and take time to learn about American history to truly understand the significance of Independence Day.

Halloween (October 31st)

• Traditions: trick-or-treating, costume parties, and spooky decorations
• Cultural comparisons: While not as widely celebrated in Vietnam and Singapore, Halloween's focus on costumes and fun can be likened to the festive atmosphere during the Mid-Autumn Festival. And also we started to see Halloween being celebrated in more larger cities in Vietnam in recent years.
• My experience: Sophie's first Halloween in the US was a thrilling adventure — she dressed up and joined a group of trick-or-treaters. They "walked" through the neighborhood a few rounds, visiting each house. She came back with so much candy I didn't know what to do with it all :D
• Tips for expats: Embrace the spooky spirit by dressing up, attending a local event or party, and even decorating your home with Halloween-themed items.

Thanksgiving (the fourth Thursday in November)

• Traditions: family gatherings, feasting, and expressing gratitude
• Cultural comparisons: The emphasis on family and gratitude during Thanksgiving is reminiscent of certain aspects of Tet in Vietnam and the Lunar New Year in Singapore.
• My experience: I was invited to a friend's home for Thanksgiving dinner, and I was amazed by the warmth and generosity of my hosts as we shared a delicious feast and gave thanks for our blessings.
• Tips for expats: Learn about the history of Thanksgiving and consider attending or hosting a Thanksgiving dinner. Share what you're thankful for with friends and family, and embrace the spirit of gratitude that defines this holiday.

Christmas (December 25th)

• Traditions: gift-giving, family gatherings, and festive decorations
• Cultural comparisons: Christmas is celebrated in both Vietnam and Singapore, but the scale and intensity of the festivities in the US can be surprising to newcomers. Also, unlike in Asia, many people are taking the entire week between Christmas and new year off as their annual leave/holiday.
• My experience: I was enchanted by the twinkling lights, festive music, and the spirit of generosity that filled the air during my first American Christmas. Also, visiting local neighborhoods filled with Christmas light and decoration is great :)
• Tips for expats: Exchange gifts with friends and family, attend holiday events, and embrace the festive atmosphere by decorating your home. Be prepared for regional variations, as different parts of the country may have unique traditions and events.

Conclusion

Experiencing American holidays has been one of the most enjoyable parts of living here. Some are familiar, some are completely new, and all of them have helped my family and I understand American culture a lot better. I think the key is to just participate and have fun with it — don't overthink the differences, just enjoy them :)

What about you? If you are an expat in the US, which American holiday surprised you the most? I would love to hear your stories!

Cheers,

Chandler